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A site for fathers in Calgary who are in it right now. Newborn fog. A custody fight. A layoff. A diagnosis. A kid who won't talk to you. The night you couldn't put it into words. File the note. Read the others. Find the people who've been there.

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Dads' Groups
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Calgary fathers' groups, men's circles, NICU dad groups, separated-dad meetups.
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Resources
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Mental health, custody, leave, finances, grief, addiction. Sorted by what you're in.
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Blog
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Long-form on Calgary fatherhood. PPD. Divorce. Layoffs. The harder weeks.
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Full Directory
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Every Calgary support relevant to fathers. Independent. No referral fees.
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File a Note
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Tell another Calgary dad what you're going through. They've been there.
The Wall

What Calgary dads are going through.

Dad 101

The numbers Calgary fathers should know.

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Postpartum depression hits dads too.
Up to 1 in 10 fathers experience PPD, often 3-6 months after the baby. It looks different — irritability, withdrawal, work obsession, drinking — not just sadness. AHS supports new dads, not only new moms.
SOURCE · AHS Mental Health
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Custody isn't 50/50 by default.
Alberta's Family Law Act starts from "best interests of the child," not equal parenting. What you actually get depends on what you've been doing. The free Parenting After Separation course is mandatory before most family-court applications.
SOURCE · Alberta Justice
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EI parental benefits — your dad share.
Standard parental leave is 35 weeks shareable, extended is 61 weeks. The dad-share top-up: 5 extra weeks (standard) or 8 (extended) when both parents take some. Use it or lose it.
SOURCE · Service Canada
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When the marriage is in trouble.
Couples counselling covered through Alberta Blue Cross or your employer EAP. Calgary Counselling Centre uses sliding-scale fees. Doing it before the separation lawyer often costs less than doing it after.
SOURCE · Calgary Counselling Centre
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When your kid won't talk to you.
Wood's Homes runs a free 24/7 family crisis line for Calgary parents — same line whether your 4-year-old won't sleep or your 16-year-old just left in a rage. It's the number to call when you're stuck.
SOURCE · Wood's Homes
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The 40-something male check-up.
Sleep apnea, blood pressure, prostate, mental health — the four things Calgary dads in their 40s skip. Get them annually. Albertafindadoctor.ca lists family doctors taking new patients.
SOURCE · Doctors of Alberta
Directory · top picks

First places to call when you're stuck.

Wood's Homes Family Crisis Line
Calgary · 24/7
Free family-crisis line for Calgary parents. Whatever's happening with your kid or in your house, this is the number.
Distress Centre Calgary
Calgary · 24/7
Free counselling and 24/7 crisis support, including for men in distress. Phone, chat, or text.
988 Suicide Crisis Helpline
National · 24/7
Call or text 988 from any Canadian phone. Free, confidential, available in English and French.
Calgary Counselling Centre
Calgary · sliding-scale
No-waitlist counselling on a sliding-scale fee. They specifically run programs for fathers, separated dads, and men dealing with anger.
Dad Central Canada
National non-profit
Resources, peer support, and research for Canadian fathers. The 24/7 forum is moderated by other dads.
Alberta Family Court Resources
Family law support
Self-help guides for Calgary fathers navigating custody, maintenance, and access without a lawyer. Free Parenting After Separation course is here.
AHS Postpartum Mood Clinic
Calgary Zone
Specialized supports for new parents experiencing postpartum mood challenges, including fathers. Self-refer or get a GP referral.
Big Brothers Big Sisters Calgary
Mentorship · ages 6-21
For when your kid could use another adult man around. Volunteer or refer your own kid.
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